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Groped/harassed

Aged 19 2013 I worked as bad staff at xxx Bar and we had to wear T shirts with a brand of cider on that we sold. I asked a guy what he wanted to drink. He said, ‘a pint of this’ and dragged his finger across the front of my T shirt where the logo was, over my chest. I was too shocked to...

Groped

Aged 15 2021 I was on the 75 bus coming home from school at around 7pm but due to it being winter it was quite dark and quiet. I had the whole bus to myself until an older man came on and sat right next to me. I thought it was weird but didn’t say anything. I had my headphones in and just...

Groped

Aged 16 2010 I didn’t experience sexual harassment in school because I was considered one of the ‘ugly’ girls because I didn’t wear makeup etc. When I turned up at prom in full glam people didn’t recognise me at first, but the lads clearly decided I was now worthy of harassment because I...

Propositioned

Aged 14 2000 I was in town with friends and my boyfriend at the time was also in town with his. I think we must have arranged to meet briefly. We were stood in the middle of the street chatting as a group and I felt him going into my backpack. He said he had put a present in there for me...

Harassed/followed

10/2/2023 Bystander account As I drove into Sainsbury’s car park I noticed shouting. I parked opposite a car with a male half in half out the passenger door and I heard the female driver saying “leave me alone”. At this I went over to the car and asked if the female if...

Approached/harassed

2022 A, aged 27 I was approached by man saying I was attractive asking for my number, when I declined he offered me ketamine, he then went into the unlicesend bar with what looked like underage girls that were clearly intoxicated somehow and on drugs, I can’t remember what the sign...

Verbal abuse/followed

01/02/2023 Aged 13 My friend invited me to town but to my surprise once we arrived two 17 year olds came up to us and one of them hugged my friend. She explained to me how it is her boyfriend who her parents don’t want her seeing because, for one he handles with drugs and two, for the...

Intimidation

2022 Ava, aged 21 I was in B&M’s minding my own business when a middle-aged short bearded man slowly approached while staring at me. He stopped dead in front of me, looked me up and down, laughed and did the creepiest smile I’ve ever seen. I then just walked on and called him a...

Verbal abuse

2023 Ava, aged 21 I was wearing a long fur cow print coat, looking super glamorous if I do say so myself, when two scruffy looking boys started to “moo” at me the whole way up the escalator… it was loud and went on for quite some time. In all honesty I just found it embarrassing for them...

Verbal abuse

2022 Ava, aged 21 I’m a very androgynous person… I was wearing a head to toe pink, very alternative/really cool outfit. A group of scruffy boys walked past and started shouting to each other “it’s a boy hahaha, bro it’s literally a boy”. When I am in fact literally a girl, bro. Even if I...

Followed/harassed

3 November 2022Aged 18 I met a man who introduced himself to me as Adam (although this might be a fake name), at a Halloween themed event in Blackpool. We exchanged phone numbers and I gave him my name, and after that I thought I’d seen the last of him. I was quite confident that I...

Harassed

2011 Aged 14 I normally went to the skate park with a group of friends, but this time all my friends wanted to stay in but I wanted to skate. I got the bus to the skate park and had a nice skate for 15 minutes, until an older male started to follow me around the skate park. He started by...

Catcalled

2023 Jen, aged 37 Whilst out running along Moor Park Avenue man in a van catcalled to me as I was running. When I got around to Bristol Avenue the same man slowed down his van to shout (what he thought were helpful) tips to me about how to lose weight, how to run better blah blah blah. He...

Bullied

2021 I was made by by employer to walk through town at night to hand deliver a letter with no way of alerting anybody if I was being attacked. I am a survivor of domestic violence, rape and attempted murder and told her this. I felt I had no choice and my request to stay online while I...

Verbally harassed/followed

2011 Aged 21 I was walking to work around 6pm during an icy, dark winter. I thought I was alone but realised a much older man was following me. He started shouting sexually explicit things and speeding up behind me. It was to icy for me to run but luckily someone came walking towards us...