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2023 Tamzin, aged 23 I was by the upstairs bar with my boyfriend and his friend when some guy repeatedly “squeezed past” us. It felt like a lot of times to be going up and down from where he was sat. He then did it again and this time grabbed my bum as he walked past with enough force for...

Spiked

2019 Aged 20 I was out with some friends from work when I bumped into a group of people I knew. Whilst I was talking to these people, I left my drink foolishly unattended and when I returned and drank the drink I very quickly became unwell. I was very lucky that one of the girls I worked...

Spiked

2023 Aged 20 I had been on a regular night with a few friends and everything was going smoothly, we visited the bar as its open late and we had previously been at another bat we liked that closes early. It was busy at the bar downstairs but my friends where dancing so I thought id go to...

Spiked

December 2023 Aged 20 I was out with friends seeing my friend’s partner perform – we had been out for a few hours and there where a few of us. after a while I noticed my friend had been gone a little while so I tried to see if she was in the toilets. I found her in there being...

Sexual harassment

2020-2023 I have had numerous occasions where I’ve felt uncomfortable and not safe because of males in this bar. One of the times a guy turned round and went ‘I’m going to fuck you tonight’ while grabbing my arm even though I had said no leave me alone multiple times. There have been a...

Spiking

2023 Bystander account, aged 24 Witnessed two separate groups of women get spiked within minutes of each other. I was upstairs by the bar and noticed a young girl passed out on the floor her friends frantically trying to help her as they thought she’d been spiked. She was safe as...

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Katie I won a booth at a nightclub and it was pretty dead, me and my friend asked these men to watch our table which all seemed well and fine. I came back had one sip of my drink and from that I don’t remember much but nobody would help me as I seemed drunk, however I wasn’t because these...

Verbal abuse and sexual harassment

2022 Aged 18 I was a musician at this bar, I often had older men making sexual comments at me but the one I remember most distinctly was when I was performing on stage and a man turned to my boyfriend at the time, pointed at me and said ‘let me have a go’ insinuating that I was an object...

Spiked

2014 Laura, aged 25 I was on a night out with a friend, we had had a couple of drinks. I wasn’t feeling great so we decided to go home. In the taxi home I started to feel very drunk, by the time I got home I was very sick for a few hours. I believe I had been spiked. I reported it...

Verbal abuse

January 2024 Ages 25, 26 and 56 I was walking with my sister, mum and dad back to the car from having dinner. A drunk gentleman who we first thought was talking loudly but very incoherently on the phone as it was in his hands, was on the steps of the pub as we was exiting Deangate onto...

Intimidation and indecent exposure

2018 Aged 34 I was a member of staff and I was washing my hands in the toilets, when two drag performers from Funny Girls blocked my exit, not letting me leave until I looked at the drag DJ’s penis. Reported to management who found it funny with a reply like, ‘Who hasn’t seen it?!’ More...

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Josie B, aged 20 2023 I hadn’t drunk very much and was ok one minute. The next I was sweating profusely, being sick and couldn’t walk. I was frightened of what was happening and was crying. I felt poorly over the next few days. I also noticed a blood spot on my skin when I got home but...

Indecent exposure

2023 Aged 39 I went to a pub, purely to watch a band I was interested in. I had not long been at the venue, and sat down with a drink with my friend. A man walked over, in his 60s at a guess. He pulled his pants down and started flashing his genital area at anyone who would look. My...

Sexually assaulted

Nicole, aged 23 2018 On a night out, on the phone to my boyfriend and two very young men walked passed. One lifted my dress whilst the other slapped my bum REALLY hard that it set me off straight away. I started following them back with one heel in hand as they ran away. However a gang of...

Catcalled

Nicole, aged 30 2023 Just on my way to work and a delivery guy was going into a car with another guy. As I was walking past, he wolf-whistled and I remember hearing it but when it’s happened so often before you just drown it out and ignore it completely. However, because I ignored this...